Saturday, August 1, 2009

communication . . or lack of .

i see things, i hear things, and i feel things. i feel a certain way about certain situations . . and i hate when relationships end over something as stupid as lack of communication.

communication is supposedly a big factor in keeping a relationship going, right ? so why keep everything to yourself, knowing it could possibly jeopardize a relationship that you "wanted." if you feel a certain way about something your girlfriend has done . . or I S N ' T doing, then nigga. . .SPEAK UP! don't bit your tongue, biting your tongue is painful and i know you'on want that feeling. but seriously, all sarcasm aside. if there's something needed to be said in order to keep your relationship going, then don't hold back. let her know.

and yea it may be hard to tell her how you're feeling but think about it like this. if it's something that you want--if SHE'S the one that you want--then you got to do what you have to do to keep her. you can't have her trying her hardest with you when you not trying with her. she can't put in 50 while you're putting in 25; cause i swear, that equation don't add up. 50 plus 25 DOES not equal 100. AND THEN ( Lord have mercy ) don't run off to the next female because you think it's easier than confronting the problems in your relationship. that shit is low, disrespectful, and obviously immature because you apparently aren't man enough to handle situations with the person you supposedly wanted to be with.

idk. that shit really blows my mind. like i can't grasp the concept . . guys make the simplest things seem so complicated. like their mind set is stuck on "communication is equal to sensitivity. masculinity is NOT equal to sensitivity. therefore; IF it has to do with communicating, THEN it ain't happening!"

but hey, maybe i'm wrong. maybe it's another reason why guys have a hard time communicating. but shit, if you want it to work you better build a bridge and get over that shit. better write a fucking letter or SOMETHING. it's really not as hard as it seems.


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